Hot N Dry 2009
It has been quite an unusual month for me. Unusual=Good! I guess things seem different because I have been engaged in some new experiences.
I had a blast at Hot N Dry in Palm Springs this weekend. For those of you who don't know, Hot N Dry is a sober event that is done by the LA Gay sober community. It is held at the Hilton Hotel. Literally, the entire hotel hosts the party for four days. There are workshops, dance parties, meetings, and social events. Gay men come from all over the country to spend four days at this sober party. I was anxious about attending, as I become somewhat shy and withdrawn amongst strangers when I am out of my element. (Imagine that!)
It turned out ot be one of the best experiences in the almost two years that I have been sober. What it really did for me was bring me closer to some of the guys who are in the San Diego recovery community. (where I live) It also helped me to get out of my shell and meet some new friends as well. I really have to thank my friend David Perez, who made me feel a part of the group from the moment I arrived. It was awesome! I went to social gatherings, AA meetings, clubs, and the pool with David and some of the other guys from San Diego. I felt so free. The experience that I so desperately sought while I was under the influence, I managed to achieve right there in Palm Springs-sober. I had a blast with 800 other gay and sober men. Total freedom! I never would have imagined that possible!
There were some great intimate moments amongst our little group of friends. Great conversation at the casino, in the deli at 1am.
More conversation by the pool. Awesome time out dancing with the boys as well!
I also got a deeper insight into my sexual ideal that weekend. I had the opportunity to watch and observe other people at the event and experience my own feelings as well. Now, I know that I have taken the time to write about my sexual ideal on this blog before, but as I change, so does my sexual ideal. I realized that along with all of the emotional stuff I have written about that I want in my partner, I really also need my partner to be a bottom. No 50/50. Not even 75/25. I could probably settle on 95/5. Lol.
Before, I thought that as long as all the emotional stuff was there, I could compromise on the sexual stuff. Don't get me wrong..I can bottom with the best of them. (As many of you have seen) But at the end of the day, I'm a top. I love to fuck. I love to make love. But, I really love to do it as a top. My boy is a top as well. That presents a challenge. He surprised me the other day with a dildo that he had bought for himself to practice on. HOT!! It's in much need cuz he is TIGHT!
Sorry. I guees I tend to ramble when the subject turns to fucking and how I like it best!
Anyway, Hot N Dry was a blast and I am grateful that I got to be a part of it.
I'm getting sleepy, so I 'm gonna wrap this up. I am utterly grateful to you guys for being a part of this journey with me. I get hundreds of hits each day, and I know that a lot of you have been with me from the beginning. Thank you for that. This blog is my truth. And you guys are my family. Big sloppy kiss!
Nick
Here are some pics of my sober buddies and Hot n Dry 2009!
Me and David (Ms) Perez
Wayne & Nick
Nick & Shane
I had a blast at Hot N Dry in Palm Springs this weekend. For those of you who don't know, Hot N Dry is a sober event that is done by the LA Gay sober community. It is held at the Hilton Hotel. Literally, the entire hotel hosts the party for four days. There are workshops, dance parties, meetings, and social events. Gay men come from all over the country to spend four days at this sober party. I was anxious about attending, as I become somewhat shy and withdrawn amongst strangers when I am out of my element. (Imagine that!)
It turned out ot be one of the best experiences in the almost two years that I have been sober. What it really did for me was bring me closer to some of the guys who are in the San Diego recovery community. (where I live) It also helped me to get out of my shell and meet some new friends as well. I really have to thank my friend David Perez, who made me feel a part of the group from the moment I arrived. It was awesome! I went to social gatherings, AA meetings, clubs, and the pool with David and some of the other guys from San Diego. I felt so free. The experience that I so desperately sought while I was under the influence, I managed to achieve right there in Palm Springs-sober. I had a blast with 800 other gay and sober men. Total freedom! I never would have imagined that possible!
There were some great intimate moments amongst our little group of friends. Great conversation at the casino, in the deli at 1am.
More conversation by the pool. Awesome time out dancing with the boys as well!
I also got a deeper insight into my sexual ideal that weekend. I had the opportunity to watch and observe other people at the event and experience my own feelings as well. Now, I know that I have taken the time to write about my sexual ideal on this blog before, but as I change, so does my sexual ideal. I realized that along with all of the emotional stuff I have written about that I want in my partner, I really also need my partner to be a bottom. No 50/50. Not even 75/25. I could probably settle on 95/5. Lol.
Before, I thought that as long as all the emotional stuff was there, I could compromise on the sexual stuff. Don't get me wrong..I can bottom with the best of them. (As many of you have seen) But at the end of the day, I'm a top. I love to fuck. I love to make love. But, I really love to do it as a top. My boy is a top as well. That presents a challenge. He surprised me the other day with a dildo that he had bought for himself to practice on. HOT!! It's in much need cuz he is TIGHT!
Sorry. I guees I tend to ramble when the subject turns to fucking and how I like it best!
Anyway, Hot N Dry was a blast and I am grateful that I got to be a part of it.
I'm getting sleepy, so I 'm gonna wrap this up. I am utterly grateful to you guys for being a part of this journey with me. I get hundreds of hits each day, and I know that a lot of you have been with me from the beginning. Thank you for that. This blog is my truth. And you guys are my family. Big sloppy kiss!
Nick
Here are some pics of my sober buddies and Hot n Dry 2009!
Me and David (Ms) Perez
Wayne & Nick
Nick & Shane
Hi Nick,
The picture of you with Shane is hot. I don't know who he is, but Shane looks to me like a baby Nick. You two should do a scene together -- that would smoke. Maybe he's not in the biz. Too bad.
Yep, you are definitely a top, but remember to treat us to a bottom scene every now and then.
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