I’m on my way, speaking just a little, and it’s clear that it’s not always easy to give wings to your ideas in another language. Perhaps not all the charisma I possess can be distilled through a technical–almost scientific–language like English, which is very different from the romantic languages, like my Spanish.Today, I want to take advantage of this time online to express myself a bit. The issue is that time flies; almost everyone arrives with their battery in the red, on the verge of breakdown, and they rarely take a moment to intimate the mind.Furthermore, I have to confess: the phenomenon of observing without crossing a word bothers me deeply. When I see it, and although it’s ironic, it annoys me to see a user “parked” waiting to see what happens, without interaction or a simple “hello.”In my culture–where we say hello, laugh at anything, or get angry easily because emotions are more on the surface–that indifference makes me tense. Ninety percent of members remain in the silent waiting room, without dedicating a minute to say, “Hey, how are you?! I noticed you exist and you’re here!”Friends, staying behind the bar of inhibition ensures you a privileged spot on the “Blacklist of Interest”–and it’s not a shopping list you forget after two days.The truth is that the spark of connection is born between two individuals, not from the superficial. And, if I’m honest, I also reserve the right of admission. I wouldn’t feel comfortable offering a “show” with someone I haven’t established a good connection with, or at least haven’t exchanged a few words with.Let’s remember we are human; I am you. There are also emotions behind the screen, and while you might deduce two, three, or four things about me, it’s important to know beyond the initial package.I like to express myself freely, and if that sometimes has disadvantages, I consider it good to expose it.It’s the same feeling I get when a delivery person arrives at my house and doesn’t just stick to handing over the order. If they later offer you a smile or perhaps an invitation to take a breath before continuing on their path… I believe that changes their fortune a bit! And in the end, I’m left with something more than a simple package.My invitation today is to share. Maybe today you feel alone, unhappy, or nothing surprises you anymore. Let me tell you something: you are no different from me or anyone here. You are part of this place, a space to meet and share without censorship. Your pseudonym doesn’t exclude you; it is part of the reality you are creating.Allow me to take the initiative, but you follow the game. This might take you to another place and join me in a new daily adventure.I know it is you who is finishing reading this post today, and you may or may not connect. In the end, my intention is to give you 20 minutes of your time so you can easily decide what your next goal is. Yesterday I had a first moment with a guy and things simply happened because we both connected with the same idea; one that led us to experience a night of pleasure, fun, and a few things I cannot tell you here, but that I had never experienced to the point of being so wild, and at the same time, I was excited to see him again!Your time is valuable, and remember: I am you, and you are I; we are us!
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